Caregiver diet concerns

[mmscole]

My husband is on a very strict renal diet,currently on dialysis. My question is,as a healthy but tired caregiver! , are we putting ourselves at risk by consuming a renal diet as well? I am afraid I might be missing out on the nutrients I need. Thanks in advance

[busy]

In my opinion, yes and no......depending on the protein source, you could be doing a bit much. In dialysis patients, they need as much protein as they
can get. My dad used to eat 6 scrambled eggs each day for breakfast....plus home made sausage (fresh ground pork, with sage and mrs. dash added).
good protein, not so good cholesterol. But he kept his protein and energy levels up....never seen such a skinny man eat so much !!
reduction of sodium (2000 mg or less).......that's actually good for you. The phos and potassium. You could eat both, and if you are working a lot
and things, you need some K. You could also use maybe a bit more phos........just add some cheese to your plate, to get some phos, and throw in
a banana or orange....maybe while in dialysis, you can have a banana or the like while in the waiting room

You've got to take care of yourself, so you can take care of him. Also, ask your husbands dietician. There is usually a monthly meeting, and ask, they can
help you as well. Also if you feel tired, pooped out, and the like, talk to the social worker...they also usually have a monthly patient meeting...your not a bad
person, or something to be ashamed of if you are a bit on the tired side....there might be some little things, or options, or ideas they can come up,
and there are resources available too. Doesn't hurt to ask. When we were in dialysis, they told us they take care of the patient, and their family
because the family will have an impact on the patient.

just keep putting one foot in front of the other. take care both of you

[cufarmer]

I work 5 days a week. I have worried about this at times. I know this thread is two years old, but I'll share anyway.
Caregivers and spouses, etc. have to take care of themselves. It's a fact. What good can we do if we go down over something completely within our control. At work, I eat lunches and snacks that fill in the gaps in my diet.